airing the disagreements, exposing the disagreements, bringing the disagreements to light, laying the disagreements bare, surfacing the disagreements
challenging - troubling - disturbing - unsettling - disconcerting - hard to face - hard-hitting - provocative - bracing - sobering
The word "confronting" describes the act or quality of facing something difficult, uncomfortable, or challenging directly. It can refer to addressing a person about a problem, facing an issue that has been avoided, or encountering disturbing or shocking information. In interpersonal contexts, it often implies a direct, sometimes tense interaction aimed at resolving a conflict or expressing a strong opinion. In a psychological sense, it can mean dealing with one’s own fears, emotions, or past experiences. Overall, it carries the sense of meeting something head‑on rather than ignoring, escaping, or minimizing it.